We all know that being grateful for what you have, living in the moment, accepting and living life one day at a time are considered some of the paths to contentment.
And these are good ways to live. But it’s not always easy to put that advice into practice when we are truly suffering.
So I think for me the secret to contentment in very trying times has become ‘not trying to be content’. The harder you try to ignore pain, grief, trauma, frustration, the worse it can make you feel.
Instead, turn to God and cry out to Him. That’s what King David did frequently in the Psalms. By the end of his cries, he is praising God!
And I have found over and over that when I stop fighting and trying to ‘feel better’ in my own power and just go to God in prayer, He supernaturally changes my mood !
This is not a placebo effect. This is the power of prayer and the intervention of the Holy Spirit with your spirit. It’s ‘like magic’ but it’s better than magic. It’s God the Father comforting his child.
God loves me and you. He wants us to turn to Him when we are suffering. He knows we are weak and often under spiritual attack. He is not going to punish us for humbly seeking his help. He’s a good Father.
Turn to your loving Father today. You can trust Him. Amen.

Amen, Paula. Trying to feel better is like trying to be happy. Comfort and happiness are by-products of seeking and finding God.
Well said! Somebody smart once said, prayer doesn’t always change the things around us, but it changes how we respond to them. Most things in the Bible, like David in Psalms as you pointed out, are about crying out to God. Grief, anger, frustration, even despair, these are all forms of praise and worship, too.
You’re right. Somehow I got the message that Christians should always be joyful but I missed the part about how to do it when life is really hard. I don’t think I ever heard one sermon on lamenting .
Somebody say ‘amen’! In our own strength, peace is far from us, but crying out to the Lord brings the peace we seek
Amen! 💕
Love this ❤️