Help for Those Who Want To Believe in Jesus, But “Can’t”

You want to believe—but something’s holding you back.
Maybe you’ve seen too much pain. Maybe you’ve been hurt by people who claimed to follow God. Or maybe you’ve grown skeptical in a world full of lies and disappointment.

I get it. We live in an age where we have to be careful—about scams, manipulation, and broken promises. Life isn’t always fair, just, or kind. But faith in Jesus is not about pretending life is good. It’s about being forgiven, changed, loved, and adopted into God’s family.

Following Jesus may bring peace and hope—but it can also bring challenges and opposition. The good news is this: you won’t be alone. God Himself promises to walk with you.


Faith Is Not Blind

Did you know there’s solid historical evidence for the life of Jesus?
Even non-Christian historians like Josephus and Tacitus wrote about Him. The New Testament was written within the lifetime of eyewitnesses, and archaeology continues to confirm details once doubted by scholars.

And perhaps most compelling—the early followers of Jesus willingly died rather than deny what they saw: His resurrection.

Faith in Jesus is not a blind leap into darkness; it’s a reasonable step into the light. But it’s also deeply personal. If you want to believe, start by asking God to help you see the truth.

“He promises that those who seek Him will find Him.” — Matthew 7:7–8


Why It’s Hard to Believe Today

Our culture has grown increasingly opposed to God.
You’ve been told that humans are accidents of evolution. Maybe your parents don’t believe. Influencers, professors, and media voices often mock faith. It takes more courage to believe today than it did fifty years ago.

But deep down, you know that something in your heart recognizes the truth: God is real, and He’s calling you.

Don’t be afraid. Fear is the biggest obstacle to faith.


When Doubt Feels Overwhelming

Doubt is not the opposite of faith—it’s part of it.
Even strong believers experience it. Doubt can either drive you away from God or push you closer to Him.

If you’re “trying to believe,” God knows. Jesus said He would never turn away anyone who seeks Him. But sometimes, we seek Him on our own terms—expecting a sign, a feeling, or a miracle to prove He’s real.

While God sometimes gives signs, true faith isn’t built on experiences. The proof of God’s existence is all around you. Often, it’s our pride or pain that keeps us from seeing it.


Is It Really a Faith Problem—or a Trust Problem?

Many people don’t reject God out of disbelief—but out of distrust.
It’s not that they can’t believe in Him; it’s that they can’t trust Him.

If you say, “I don’t believe in skydiving,” you probably mean you don’t trust that it’s safe. Likewise, when someone says, “I can’t believe in God,” it often means they’re afraid to trust Him.

Why? Because trust means vulnerability. And fear is usually rooted in guilt, shame, or hurt—feelings we’d rather avoid.

But here’s the truth: God will not hurt you.
He wants to free you from fear, not increase it.

If you’ve been rejected or abused, your heart may have hardened to protect itself. God understands that. He isn’t like fickle or cruel humans. He is patient, gentle, and loving.


Learning to Trust God

Sometimes we’re afraid to trust God because we worry about what He’ll ask of us.
We imagine He’ll take away what we love or make life miserable. But that’s not who He is.

God’s plans are always for our good, even when they’re hard to understand. He asks for our trust because He knows that only through surrender can we find real peace.

Start with what little faith you have.
Admit to God, “I believe You’re real, but I struggle to trust You.”
Ask Him to take away your fear, guilt, and shame.

“Lord, I want to believe. Help my unbelief.” — Mark 9:24


It’s a Spiritual Battle

Your mind will resist the idea of a holy God.
That’s because faith is not just intellectual—it’s spiritual. The world, the flesh, and the devil all work to blind us to truth.

Find the areas of your life you’ve kept “off limits” to God, and invite Him into them.
He wants every part of you—your fears, sins, wounds, and dreams.

His grace is endless. But you have to ask for it.


Believing in God Is Not Enough — You Need Jesus

Once you acknowledge that God exists, the next step is knowing who He really is.
True faith means believing in Jesus Christ, not just a generic “god.”

Many religions and spiritual paths offer gods made in human imagination. They may teach good morals, but none can forgive sin or give eternal life. Only Jesus does that.

He claimed what no other teacher ever did:
that He alone can forgive sins and reconcile us to the Father—not because of what we do, but because of what He did.

“No one comes to the Father except through Me.” — John 14:6

Faith in Jesus is not about keeping rules. It’s about receiving grace.
He died for your sins so that you could live forever with Him.


A Personal Invitation

If you sense that tug in your heart, don’t ignore it. That’s God’s Spirit calling you.

Here’s a simple prayer you can make your own:

“God, I want to believe. I know I can’t save myself. Please forgive me for my sins. Help me trust You and follow Jesus. I give You my life. Amen.”

If you prayed that sincerely, even in weakness, God hears you. Start reading the Gospel of John and ask Him to teach you more each day.

You are not alone. Many have stood right where you are—afraid, uncertain, skeptical—and have found that when they took one small step toward God, He ran to meet them.


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BONUS VIDEO

My 20 year old son told me he thinks the book Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis is a good one for those who want logical explanations of God. Here’s an audio book of that .

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  1. Hi, I wanted to ask something because I do feel G-d present in my life, but what I struggle with is believing in Jesus’s role

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